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"A household residing in north London seeks an extraordinary and experienced tutor to assist their most junior child on his initial journey to growing into an British gentleman."

Looking at this advertisement, you might readily overlook the term "initial stages" as simple an expression.

However, it may be the most significant element of this unusual position posting, as it aims to hire a mentor for a one-year-old.

Many of submissions have already been submitted since the unidentified family published their call for the highly paid tutor, who needs to be "someone very special".

Over the last few weeks, the advert has received interest across the media, with many asking why?

Progressive Approach

A tutoring expert, CEO and founder of a global tutoring firm, which is helping the family in their search, explained that despite initial scepticism, he viewed the plan "forward-looking", and "innovative".

When he spoke with the family, he noted they recognized the unconventional aspect of their requirement, and how immature their son is.

However, they stated that they "preferred not to postpone any longer" to engage a tutor, as they had postponed until their firstborn was five, and by that age "cultural conditioning had by then become established".

But what did the family refer to by "cultural leaning"?

It's "all-encompassing", Adam replied. "The way you eat, the way you speak".

He stated the firstborn had adopted "really subtle, body language" from the family, and had adopted their cultural ways. The family explained to him they hoped to prevent this pattern to recur with their infant.

The plan: To bring in a English tutor, who must speak with standard English accent, to influence the baby from day one.

Subtle Influence

"Much of the education at the beginning here is somewhat osmotic," said Adam.

It's through this osmosis that the family are hoping the child will adopt the UK customs they aim to impart.

Adam noted the tutor needed to be someone who studied at "the appropriate educational institutions – the same kinds of schools as the family hope to send their son to".

"The educator simply needs to be the suitable individual, they'll be performing things they don't even know they're doing, effortlessly," he added.

Money No Object

The family told the expert the selected educator should ideally also have knowledge of or passion in equestrian activities, alpine skiing, the arts and musical activities so as to influence the child in a diverse set of passions.

Additionally though, he stated the family desired the tutor to enrol the child on a range of courses so the child would be "horseback riding and learning an tool by the time they are about three years old".

In the family's view, guiding their son become a "British gentleman" will result in achievement and open doors.

"Taking into account the rights and wrongs of that, because it's definitely a class statement," he adds.

Yet, despite all this tutelage in "Britishness", could the child pick up what is termed cultural leaning from the globally influenced family he resides with in any case?

"Certainly", replied he. "The family understand this could fail, but they've just taken the attitude of, 'why not attempt it and let's go as soon as we can', because the cost of it is not a concern," he said.

Impractical

A number of in the education sector who have these doubts.

Peter Cui, chief executive of a tutoring service, who provides personal educators, stated that "the journey of embracing two identities, or in fact, becoming oneself, is something that must be lived into, not designed."

He wrote that he had emigrated from Asia to the United Kingdom at the age of seven, and had been raised knowing and embodying two backgrounds. He went on to study at the University of Cambridge.

"The concept that a single person can serve as a embodiment of English culture, an individual who can in some way impart the attributes of a English gentleman to a infant child, strikes me as naive and unfeasible," he stated.

"Based on my background, employing a distinctly British tutor from babyhood will will not automatically create the result they desire.

"I wasn't provided with that kind of mentor, and however I have been lucky enough to live several of the situations they hope for their son."

He added: "The truth is, cultural identity should not be imposed from the external environment; it must be chosen, and it must come from within."

Buying Britishness

Naturally, English culture is something the expert thinks can be educated – and marketed.

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